Wednesday, March 26, 2014

THE FIRST FAMILY SECRET UNCOVER:

Meet President Jonathan’s Second Wife, Mrs. Lott Jonathan

By  on March 25, 2014
Unknown to most Nigerians, President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan has another wife, aside from the First Lady, Dame Patience Ibifaka (née Oba). The existence of his second wife, Mrs. Lott Jonathan, popularly called Mrs. Lott J, is one major aspect of GEJ’s family life, which is consciously being kept out of the awareness of most Nigerians. Lott J is not just President Jonathan’s second wife, she is also the mother of his children-two boys.
A Law graduate of Rivers State University of Science and Technology (RSUST), Lott J is the daughter of Chief F.D. Lott, renowned lawyer and former Attorney General of Bayelsa State. She is the cousin of Dezieni Allison-Madueke, the controversy-inclined Minister of Petroleum, and the two are as close as blood sisters can be. The ELITES gathered that Lott J’s father is a member of the Governing Council of Niger Delta University, Bayelsa.
Sources disclosed to The ELITES that Lott J has been married to the president even before he made his foray into politics. It was gathered that after Jonathan became the Deputy-Governor of Bayelsa State, Lott J tried to muscle her way into his heart, by using her two sons as a bargaining chips to tie his hand. However, she met a resistance in a fiery Patience, who foiled all her attempts. By the time Jonathan became the governor of Bayelsa State, he decided to relocate his second wife and two sons to the United States of America. Shortly after Jonathan became president, Lott J came back to Nigeria with her two sons, and made Abuja her place of abode. Sources disclosed to The ELITES that Lott J lives in one of the most highbrow areas in Maitama Street. Her husband is said to pay her a visit every Sunday.
Described as a very easy-going and self-effacing lady, Lott J owns and runs a private school, Aduvie Montessori International. It is situated off Blantyre Street in Maitama and it is rated as one of the best in FCT Abuja.

Monday, February 10, 2014

Love Me Or Not


 What can you say about the Words Love? How can you explain the definition of Love?
Do you ever confuse infatuation and lust? Observation!!!
Oh my God, Love is beyond a risk for anyone, it’s a kind of risk one takes and grasp and fall into a very big dark abyss or dig oneself a hole and only crawl back when you overcome your emotions.
How can one truly define what love is? Not even an experienced person can truly grasp or explain love to its truest and deepest meaning. Its concepts are just  never ending story of an open book of experiences. But love does lie in one's heart, where memories are but shadows lingering in your soul.

Love is giving someone the power to break your heart, but trusting them not to.

Who would you call the love of your life? Can it be the person who is still playing around with hearts regardless of where or how the relationship will ends?
My first grand passion was what I thought may ends in marriage, from a recent survey it is shown that one in seven agrees that they didn’t end up with the First Love and at the end pick a Run for the second Better Half. It may be difficult to say it out but truly the truth must be said.
I am a living testimony, I am not different, I was dumped before and was stilled dumped by several men and now I am happy with someone that put smile on my face every day. Despite of my experiences, I have to own it up and confess that after a while of separation from my first love, I still remember my first time… Uhnnnn!!!! Funny it may sound. Though I am happy now but was my first love “the one”?
So far I appreciate the decision I made, I made the right choice, despite our differences, he still brings out the best in me, he allow me to develop my own ideas and creativities. Together we have been making progress, though I and my Ex went on our separate journey but because of the past chemistry, once a romantic, always a romantic
I want to believe you will agree with me over the past love would come to same conclusion. As I get older I want to smooth the edge and a trip down memory lane allow us to re-image the past. So
 it would be better to shake the memories once and for all and agree that whatever we have now we should be contempt.
After all that have been said take note of the one who get away, the end of that relationship was probably the making of ME
 Without any regret, always remember to congratulate ourselves for deciding the chosen enduring love…..be boast of your choice and be Happy.




Tuesday, January 21, 2014

FACE IT AND DON'T RUN

Most of the challenges we have faced in our lives was fear of losing, doubts, and insecurities....... What leads to these challenges was because of the reason why we are like this, psychologically, emotionally, mentally abused by our loved ones. But the only person that can help YOU, "that person is YOU." 
Hey! how can I let someone live your life for you. So wrong but 'imppossicant', 9ice the singer sang a song, "I don't care what they say or do, let them say""""""" #Odijerikomitiwosubuakorikodawonmiogbeseranwon# why would you care about the tap water mouth running unnecessarily. All you need is FOCUS, remember they are just human like you. Even when they feel they have the Ultimate Power over you or Superior than you, Remember Categories by Categories #Ori Ojori#"
No matter how great is your problem, you should not mind the greatness of your misfortune, never lose hope, or submit to frustration because once in your life time, you must undergo difficulties in order to test your ability. You need to be praised and at the same time be condemned, do not let that disturb you. God made you in his own image and indifferently from others. So, get ready to exhale above them by facing your future yourself. Be strong and above all move closer to God if you are good, bad, rich, poor, people will talk of you and carry on in life. Believe in God and do the right things at the right time, sadness may come today, happiness will come tomorrow, if you have FAITH, COURAGE AND DETERMINATION.

Monday, January 20, 2014

I am just a Vessel

I AM JUST A HUMAN AND IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND
THAT I AM A WEAK VESSEL THEN I KNOWYOU CAN’T UNDERSTAND YOURSELF
I AM A REPLICANT OF YOU
WHETHER YOU ARE A MAN OR WOMAN… YOU ARE HUMAN LIKE ME
I AM TEND TO MAKE MISTAKES SO IF YOU THINK U ARE TOO PERFECT THAN ME
THEN YOU HAVE TO MOVE TO THE WONDER-WORLD

I AM JUST A HUMAN AND MY LIVING ISN’T BY MY POWER
SO IF I ACT LIKE FATHER ADAM N EVE.. YOU SHOULDN’T THEN JUDGE ME
BECAUSE WHEN YOU JUDGE ME YOU ARE JUDGING YOURSELF
I BELIEVE WE ALL CAME UNDER SAME TREE
BE YOU CHRISTIAN,MUSLIM AND OTHERS
SO IF YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT ME THEN THE WORLD WILL COME AGAINST YOU

BEING WEAK DOES NOT MEAN I DONT HAVE INNER POWER. 
BEING WOMAN DOES NOT MEAN I AM NOT CAPABLE OF SOMETHINGS
LET MY WORDS BE HEARD AND BE PREACHED
I HAVE SPOKEN MY MIND AND I AM HEARD

BY BOUQUI AHYOH DAHUNSY

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Built over decade ( Priceless)


At the expense of my expression is the freedom to speak and elaborate the feelings that has build up in heart of soul over decade. 
At the expense of my expression is d act to show the feeling in my heart that has been short off. 
At the expense of all my mis-un-dis of my life,
 I still learn to value the very important person that keep me smiling, no matter what I do, did and done. You still keep my value up becos you are a priceless fellow. 
Many times in our lives, we dropped,crumpled, and grounded into dirt by decisions we make or made and circumstances that come our way. 
We feel as though we r worthless, I say no matter what happened or will happen, 
you will never loose ur value, dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased fearly dark or dark chocolate darkly dark,
You will remain priceless to those that value you.....For true love.




Wednesday, October 23, 2013

I am just human

I might not be aware of the day I was born

But I was aware I had Breathe in me

I remember growing up as a young gurl

Youthful age could be so exorbitant


I remember fallen as many times as i might think of

And may have laughed as many I could remember

I am loved and been loved

I have made so many trips far n near

And the things I was searching for is under ma SOKOTO

I have emerged my reasons of existent from God

And I almost gave up on myself

Suddenly Hope came from no where

Many times I had wished for the best life of all

And I forget sometimes the blessings surrounded by me

So I judge myself becos People Judge

It shouldn’t be Becos You are human like me

My imperfections and mistakes ain’t no one's headache

But My creator has my keys at hand

I put myself to PAUSE and found out I am who I am

After all, I’m only human.

Let me remind you and Introduce myself to YOU

I am Black ,Bold n Beautiful.

OluBouQuiLar Ahyohtundey Dahunsy